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What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy?

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Sugar Baby / 21

Him being far away from you, having kids, him having a wife lol, him having 2 other sugar babys, him not wanting to spoil you like he said he would, i dont know anything else to say hahahaha its taking for ever so i cant post so im just gonna keep writing until its over, how are you fellow men today? Im great looking for the best fit sugar daddy come message me

2018-01-31 05:11:50

Sugar Baby / 31

The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy is for one there is no physical attraction sexual attraction or emotional feelings involved therefore you put up with somebody who you don't even like to get something that you want leading to hard feelings toward that person you will get annoyed with them you look at them in disgust you may grow feelings of anger towards them. They may use what it is that you are seeking and hold that over your head or use that against you maybe making you feel less than a woman to make you feel as if you need them. They may grow feelings towards you being as you have a sexual relationship with them which can cause then to trolling jealous or even outraged. It may cause them to act as if you guys are a couple and their emotions may get mixed up in what the relationship really is to you or was in the beginning and create a more stressful life the way you started out

2018-01-31 07:30:49

Sugar Baby / 19

Mostly Sugar Daddys do it becuase they want to have someone who willing to fulfill their fetishes or need to dominate in the bedroom with someone since their they significant others won't come terms with them or mostly for fun. This lead many Sugar Baby feel to always need to hid in the shadows and felt the pressure especially when they on the date or just going out to have fun since most of them want a serious relationship or even marriage.

2018-01-31 08:40:29

Sugar Baby / 28

I think if you are a fully emotional person than bring a sugar baby isn't for you. You need to understand that some of these men will not care to spend the rest of your lives together. You need to also be ready when they are. He comes first for a lot of things. You're not going to be bringing a sugar daddy home to mom or dad either. So basically if you are a super emotional person, I don't think this is a good and idea for you

2018-01-31 09:52:49

Sugar Baby / 22

There are many ups and downs to dating sugar daddies but some of the downs trump everything good about the process so it’s improtant to be decisive on who you choose. Many daddies are here because they have very kinky desires that their wives or others won’t provide or do with them so they think here they can get what they want because they are paying for it. Stay in your comfort zone!

2018-01-31 12:22:32

Sugar Baby / 22

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2018-01-31 14:54:23

Sugar Baby / 18

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2018-01-31 19:09:49

Sugar Baby / 20

If you get attached easily and get jealous over absolutely everything... it’s definetly a no go! You can’t jump into a sugar daddy’s/sugar baby relationship and expect it to be all sunshine’s and butterflies. Some men get extremely attached and so do some women. I have had a few instances so far from a male getting aggatated at me for posting on sudy “moments” while I was chatting with him. So for instance you never know what to expect some people are more demanding then others and some people are More on the relaxed side. It all depends what you are comfortable with.

2018-01-31 19:11:29

Sugar Baby / 26

Sometimes when you stay with on sugar daddy for a long time, the lines of your relationship can start to blur. And then they can start to get a little too attached if you let them. If you’re dating a married guy, then you have less to worry about, but a single man who is new to sugar and gets really used to you can start wanting more of your time without giving you anymore sugar. And if you let him, you both end up unhappy when you want to make adjustments to your relationship.

2018-01-31 21:29:54

Sugar Baby / 18

Him having children.a Him being far away from you. You not having your needs met,or him. Maybe he is married. Or he can have multiple sugar babies. He may not give you everything he had promised. No respect. Other than that that, there is no other reason at all that anyone can complain about because it is extremely beneficial for the both of you, and maybe even more.

2018-02-01 00:00:31

Sugar Baby / 20

The only disadvantage I can think of is probably the fact I can't travel anywhere I like, any time I like. It especially sucks when you get an emotional attachment to someone and they tell you about all the adventures they are about to go on and all you can do is just sit back and wait for your phone to vibrate, hoping it's them. I don't know, that's the only thing I can think of.

2018-02-01 03:49:29

Sugar Baby / 19

Sometimes the disadvantages are causing family drama because I know my family doesn’t like the idea of me having a sugar daddy. I would also say that sometimes money replaces even the possibility of life ever taking place, which is kinda a disadvantage, depending on, at least, what you’re looking for. The thing that sucks though is the family issues.

2018-02-01 04:51:19

Sugar Baby / 24

The main advantage is that they are normally helpful financially as you return the favor. Some of them are respectful and caring even though you do not get to see them often sometimes due to busy schedules and family.they can spend real good cash if you are genuinely you. Sugar daddies are extra awesome people ,nice, loving, sweet,lovely, fun, good.

2018-02-01 06:30:39

Sugar Baby / 22

I mean there aren't really too many disadvantages. I can surely say that many people will call you a good digger but as long as you don't care what others are saying about you there a not really a down side. Your family may think you're just a high class how but at the same time they're not gonna turn their backs on you. So yeah there's not really a problem having a sugar daddy or a sugar momma so just do you.

2018-02-01 08:25:35

Sugar Baby / 19

There isn’t any disadvantages. Everything is great if ya just cooperate and you both get what you want. There isn’t any disadvantages. Everything is great if ya just cooperate and you both get what you want.There isn’t any disadvantages. Everything is great if ya just cooperate and you both get what There isn’t any disadvantages. Everything is great if ya just cooperate and you both get what you want.you want.

2018-02-01 13:45:08

Sugar Baby / 21

There is none at all literal I mean they are big and nature enough to understand situation like how couple fight and everything they can give you stuff to make you feel better they know better than us they will prob try their best to be there for you amd everything yea I don't see a disadvantage there so far it is quite good I think it's better to have a daddy

2018-02-01 16:28:02

Sugar Baby / 21

Ofcourse with every relationship or decision in life for that matter, there are always pros and cons. You have to be open to accepting that there are downfalls. Such as, no real relationship can be had. It is an arrangement and there are emotions and thoughts through out, however it can't turn into anything more. Depending on the arrangement, anyway. All proposals are different. Everyone is looking for something else. You just have to be open to all things and explore the limits

2018-02-01 18:03:20

Sugar Baby / 35

A couple of disadvantages I've recognized is it Can be time consuming if you find a daddy that isn't spoiling you like he claimed to want to do. Or as much or fast as you want him too.. Know your comfort level and how much time you're willing to invest invest in one. Don't be afraid to speak up. Also browse or communicate with other sugar babies if you're a new sugar baby to get ideas of exactly what you want or expect to let him know up front.

2018-02-01 22:31:10

Sugar Baby / 23

For everyone is it a different experience actually, some of the SD or SB are looking for someone more sexually and dont really want the emotional. And if you are not like that then hopefully you can find a SD or SB like you that is more serieus, wants to think more about a future, emotionally, mentally perfect for each other. So the bad thing is you need to have alot of time to find your perfect SD or SB, but if you find him/her it all be worth it.

2018-02-02 00:11:19

Sugar Baby / 30

sharing your time with a person who is most likely sharing time with other babies or his wife.. o yea that's another thing that sucks is that some sugar daddies are married. Most sugar daddies are freaks, and if you aren't that freaky this may present a problem lol. Hmm, also there are different kinds of trust that go into a sugar baby/ sugar daddy relationship

2018-02-02 00:22:43

Sugar Baby / 18

I’d say there are more advantages than disadvantages. There are some disadvantages to dating a sugar daddy that far away because you won’t get much action. And action is what I like. But some actual disadvantages are having to lie to people about your relationship or where you get your money from but that’s only if ur ashamed of it. But yeah barely any disadvantages to having a hot daddy who can buy you things and give you affection.

2018-02-02 09:20:49

Sugar Baby / 28

Many SD are married, the disadvantaged is their wife finding out that SD spending money on another woman. SD having sex or any other extramarital affairs. It can turn very ugly or become very dangerous. You also have to think of the psychological aspect of dealing with someone you met online/ that is if you've met them online. Be as discreet as your SD request.

2018-02-02 09:37:01

Sugar Baby / 21

No, you may not always be attracted to your sugar dad or always want to spend time with them, but you have to remember why you’re doing this. Whether is for school or just extra spending money, everything has a reason. Sometimes they are needy and whiny and remind you a lot of a child, but they are paying for your attention. Another one would be that maybe you can’t bring them around regular friends and family.

2018-02-02 09:46:27

Sugar Baby / 20

There is no real ones unless you care about what other peopke think. Hes older, hotter, more settled down, less hot headed, richer, sweeter, and more understanding than guys our age. No downsides unless you care about people calling you a whore (lmao f*ck them tho this sh*t glorious). And the fact that have years and years of woman pleasing experience? Mmmmm gorl come on!

2018-02-02 14:15:24

Sugar Baby / 24

The only disadvantage is the discretion portion. When I’m with someone, I want to be able to post what I’m doing and as someone who has family and friends that don’t agree or support being a sugar baby, I can’t. I feel like I live a secret life. In a way it’s a turn on, but some days it’s genunely exhausting. Also it’s a disadvantage to flip through all the fakes while finding the best daddy

2018-02-02 15:41:36

Sugar Baby / 29

Honestly I'd have to say when feelings are getting involved, and those feelings aren't mutual. I mean if both feel the same way, then great, but if not, complications usually follow. Also, when conditions of the arrangement start to change and get a bit more "abstract". I've never been in such a predicament but have a friend who has. Started out as this small thing, then that, but eventually gets to the point where you question whether it's all worth it or not.

2018-02-02 23:58:14

Sugar Baby / 24

En lo particular , no creo que hayan desventajas , pero lo que si creo es que, pocos son los suggar daddies cariñosos y comprensivos , lo ideal es que como personas mayores entiendan ellos que nosotros como jóvenes necesitamos cariño, y que nos enfrían mucho , para mi un suggar daddy debe ser algo mas que alguien que te da apoyo económico, es alguien que con su experiencia en la vida te enseña a afrontar algunas dificultades con madurez y responsabilidad

2018-02-03 04:59:25

Sugar Baby / 38

I have found that dating a daddy can be challenging due to the amount of time they might have for you. Let's face it we're all busy these days and the lifestyle in which we live, there are sacrifices. Whether you're a secret, which in itself is a big challenge, time can be a little difficult. Another challenge I've had is distance. Finding a balance is difficult but rewarding.

2018-02-03 05:46:24

Sugar Baby / 38

Well if your use to having a man all to your self you won't be getting that with a sugardaddy for sure.. if he's really attractive you might get attached then thats usually when jealousy comes into play which wont be fun for either of you... Not to mention the fact that you won't be the only one getting his goods you have to share them with who he wants to share them with.

2018-02-03 19:28:21

Sugar Baby / 18

The disadvantages include being put in an uncomfortable situation. If he wants to meet you right away and you do not, tell him how you feel. Be honest. You may feel bad about asking for money and don’t. He is on this site to give cute girls like you money. Let him do it. You might feel like a shitty person for going on a sugar daddy dating app. And that’s ok.

2018-02-03 19:33:04

Sugar Baby / 23

Don't get attached too quickly and then get annoyed over very little things it's going to be a bad experience for you. Some SD and SM have a family of their own already so you can't get jealous when they want to spend time with their family and you can't come and meet their family. Knowing who and what you are to them will be much easier not catching feelings

2018-02-04 00:11:16

Sugar Baby / 23

The disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is being with an older man that your not attracted to. You may even have to sleep with him if it comes to that point and sometime girls are not too comfortable sleeping with a 50 year old man while she herself is 18 or lil bit older than that, but when money talks girls have to put aside their morals to make money

2018-02-04 07:58:38

Sugar Baby / 33

U could never get to attached nor be jealous u may get someone who has a life already and u must always remember you have a place and a roll to play u can't be needy or controlling but down for what ever your sugar daddy needs u must always keep ur emotions in check have a positive attitude cause they are making you financially happy be supportive at all times you're here to please them there's a reason they want you with no complications they are ur daddy and bring the sugar

2018-02-04 10:37:18

Sugar Baby / 22

One of the biggest challenges you may face as a new sugar baby is keeping in mind that you’re entering a business relationship. It isn’t someone you should be hoping to fall in love with or one day start a family with. You’re both there to satisfy each other, physically or financially, but usually not beyond that. If you’re used to dating for love alone, it’ll be a tough adjustment.

2018-02-04 14:10:55

Sugar Baby / 18

Well I gess it there are any disadvantages is that you can't really think of this relationship like a normal relationship and you should not or can't be picky about who you meet, you should still meet someone you can get along with and have meaningful conversations with you can't disrespect the person if you don't completely agree with them you listen and have a good connection. well just remember what the relationship is.

2018-02-04 14:23:18

Sugar Baby / 27

There are more advantages than there are disadvantages. Some disadvantages may include not being attracted to your sugar daddy or that you may have to try something that you're not too comfortable like being with a man who is married. At the end of that moment it is something that you have to live with so make sure you think pass the moment when you make your decisions. They're will always be another sugar daddy to pick.

2018-02-04 14:43:30

Sugar Baby / 20

Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful . Remember this is a business agreement , you are being paid for your 'services' . Understand your SD is not obligated to care for your personal issues or even care for your feelings as some SD's are very narcissistic . Remember to always put your safety first , some SD's are experimenting new sex fantasies they have never done before and you can get hurt . There are ups and downs with every business relationship . Remember mutual benefit is a must to all SD/SB relationships !

2018-02-04 14:56:12

Sugar Baby / 21

You might not always be attracted to your sugar daddy but your job is to make sure you please him. And by the end you may be more attracted to him because of the way he treats you and how he acts when you are alone. And they may live too far away so it might be hard to meet them in person. And last but not least,.they may not make as much money as they say they do.

2018-02-04 17:06:03

Sugar Baby / 21

You might not always be attracted to your sugar daddy but your job is to make sure you please him. And by the end you may be more attracted to him because of the way he treats you and how he acts when you are alone. And they may live too far away so it might be hard to meet them in person. But at the end of the day there’s more pros than cons to having a sugar daddy. They will treat you right and be usually amazing!

2018-02-04 18:26:19

Sugar Baby / 18

Pros and cons have to be weighed immediately when attempting to date a sugar daddy. Clearly the first one would be it's the fact that you can't look for others to date while dating a sugar daddy or you'll risk losing your money from him. It can also be the age gap or the power struggle between you two, as he has the money and is providing it and may expect to be the 'alpha'.

2018-02-04 20:40:15

Sugar Baby / 21

Dont get attached. Stay strong. Jelousy is not an option. "He is mine" bullshit doesnt work..... Just cx he fucks u, gives u money, talks to u, and sometimes tries to understand u, it doesnt mean he is urs. Maybe he has a wife n he is just looking for other ways to spend his money. Honey dont give ur heart to him cx he doesnt want that, he wants ur kitten

2018-02-04 23:02:01

Sugar Baby / 19

There are a few, if friends that you know are against it find out then that's gonna be a burden. Some of these guys are whiney, just go with it because YOUR getting PAID. They want YOUR attention and your here for money right? Then if you ever feel like you can't do this or I'm gonna drop this guy cause he wants to much attention. Think about all the money he has given you and weigh out your options.- good luck sugarbabies

2018-02-05 04:48:15

Sugar Baby / 28

Girrrlll,I don't know. I would be lying to tell you I knew. Am just going through y'all comments..... Plus looking for free coins 😊you can join me, but just be ware I don't know. I just don't know, y'all can educate a sister. The responses are very informative. I am also taking notes. Just read through caz am also doing that you know why........ Caz I just have no clue!

2018-02-05 12:18:52

Sugar Baby / 20

I know for me, most sugar daddies live over seas. So the chance of me actually spending time with them is very slim unfortunately. You might not be as attracted to a sugar daddy as you would like. You have to be really comfortable with a daddy in order to get what you want! Set limits and respect everyones limits too! You also have to have a certain look in order to get more chances at having a sugar daddy, if you don’t have that look finding a sugar daddy gets harder!

2018-02-05 14:47:58

Sugar Baby / 24

Ofcourse there are many disadvantages. 1. Emotional Investment. Especially if your suger daddy happens to be married. Your his number something wherelse he is your number 1. This can be devastating especially if you are an emotional peraon or gets emotionally attatched easly and quickly. 2. Selfish.. you must always be there when they call yet when you want them they are not available

2018-02-05 16:06:42

Sugar Baby / 21

If your sugar daddy is too pushy, you need to let him know you aren’t comfortable. Don’t let him pressure you to go out of your comfort zone but on the other hand going out of your comfort zone might make you realize that you like something that you thought you would never incision yourself doing. Just because other sugar babies post naked pics doesn’t mean you have to. There are sugar daddies out there that aren’t into slutty chicks like that. Just be yourself!

2018-02-05 16:31:32

Sugar Baby / 36

Well of course, the age is a distinguishing factor in this case but not for judgment reasons. Myself this is my first time so I'm wanting to start on a positive note, no matter what, age don't defy me or who I may get attention from. So needless to say I'm new guys so if u think u can handle this them climb aboard please n show me the ropes of this site. Ty ur,sugar baby

2018-02-05 17:56:56

Sugar Baby / 22

The disadvantage is that you may not like every daddy you meet they just don’t fit you personal physical attraction which is fine not everyone will, also if anything was ever to get serious between you and your daddy you also have age barriers that people will judge you on how far in age you are as well as how you guys met. another thing is don’t let any daddy take you out of your comfort zone if you do not feel like it’s something you should do then don’t. You have a rights and choices and should always choose what’s best for you .

2018-02-05 18:12:58

Sugar Baby / 28

The toughest thing in my opinion is the stigma around sugaring. Let’s say you meet an amazing daddy— outside of SA and the sugar community, a lot of people don’t approve of this lifestyle, so introducing this amazing daddy to friends and family may be tougher than you realize or expect. It just comes with the territory— and, of course, you can always stay discreet.

2018-02-05 19:11:07

Sugar Baby / 27

The disadvantages could be outside perception. But if you’re a strong willed person, who gives a fuck about what others think of who you’re dating. Another possible disadvantage could be a meeting of the minds. Since both of you may be on too dofferent age spectrums, communication should be emphasized so that all needs are met within the relationship.

2018-02-05 22:30:44

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